Wäit Till You Know Me Before You Judge Me!
I hate people who judge me because everyone judges me in a bad way because of the bad things that have and are happening in my life, that has made me the way I am. I just hate it when people do it to me. You don't know anything about me so don't judge me for who I am. It isn't fair. I never did anything to you to make you feel this way toward me. I mean sometimes’ I wish they would take some time to get to know me, but at the same time if they already judged me, then they really couldn't be that nice of a person. Right?
I hate being judged. It's so rude. They don't even take the time to get to know me. Instead they place remarks based on my clothes or the way I act. It really is truly sad how that stuff happens.
That is one thing I hate the most...people will read my stuff on here....and it is pretty out there and out spoken, but people will judge me on here, and in person...you do not know me...so how can you judge me? I do not do that, I will meet the person, talk with them, get to know them and take it from there...but never do I judge people...so why do they do it? I mean if you are going to Judge me, at least give me the chance to show you who I am! I don’t know why people feel it is okay to Judge other people, when it isn’t.
Don't judge me if you don't know me. If you don't know everything and every aspect of my life. Then don't. Because you would never know me. I made mistakes, I've don't wrongs, I have regrets. But if you know nothing about that then don't judge me. If you haven't went what I went through, did what I did, seen what I seen. Then you can't. You have no reason to. Besides it's not your place. I am not perfect I’ll tell you that all right now; I never have been in my life but’ I don't judge someone before getting to know me as a person, it doesn't matter to me if your straight (girl & boy), gay, lesbian or bi; I would still be friends with you or try to get to know you. Okay?
I have been deeply hurt and upset about this!
BEFORE YOU OPEN YOUR M0UTH, MäKE SURE YOUR iNTENTiONS REäLLY äRE GENEROUS.
T0 äLL My BäCKsTäbBeRs,
I appreciate what you've done for me over the years although at the time I tasted the poison of your betrayal it felt harder than anything else to bear.
Unfortunately I know some of your names and faces and that fact will remain with me forever since knowledge is a terrible thing, good and bad. It's like toothpaste - once it's out, it's impossible to push it back to where it came from.
Thanks to your personal attacks, I was forced to stop on my tracks and think about what I took for granted or sacred in my life, more so than my true loved ones could ever do.
I considered in great pain all your rumors, allegations, the things you've said behind my back to cause me lose that job or that my personality. You've forced me to look into my raw wounds with an unflinching eye and take a massive inventory of my mind and my soul.
In there I found many things perfectly pure and innocent of any evil. Many joys and pleasant blessings that still defines today who I am, thank you.
Yet I've also found in there plenty to improve, to buff and shine to brilliance that I didn't know I was capable of doing.
So, although your numbers are very few thankfully and you usually scamper away to more precious morsels when I neglect you and refuse to turn back your arrows, your positive impact on my growth has been significant.
May all who yearn for growth and light be tested against your blessed adversity like a rusty piece of blade becomes the perfect sword it is when tested against the illuminating resistance of the sharpening stone.
May God bless you for your precious presence in my past and your inadvertent teaching of forgiveness and peace?!